How To Be Yourself?
- By Rohith Tej
- Published 02/19/2008
- PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
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How To Be Urself?
Find yourself. You can't be yourself if you don't know, understand, and accept yourself first.
Stop caring about how people perceive you. The
fact is, it really doesn't matter. It's impossible to be yourself when
you're caught up in wondering "Do they think I'm funny? Does she think
I'm fat? Do they think I'm stupid?" To be yourself, you've got to let
go of these concerns and just let your behavior flow, with only your
consideration of others as a filter—not their consideration of you.
Be honest and open. What have
you got to hide? You're an imperfect, growing, learning human being. If
you feel ashamed or insecure about any aspect of yourself—and you feel
you have to hide those parts of you, whether physically or
emotionally—then you have to come to terms with that and learn to
convert your so-called flaws into individualistic quirks.
Relax. Stop worrying about the
worst that could happen, especially in social situations. So what if
you fall flat on your face? Or get spinach stuck in your teeth? Learn
to laugh at yourself both when it happens and afterwards. Turn it into
a funny story that you can share with others. It lets them know that
you're not perfect and makes you feel more at ease, too.
Develop and express your individuality. Whether
it's your sense of style, or even your manner of speaking, if your
preferred way of doing something strays from the mainstream, then be
proud of it.
Have a Productive Day. Accept
that some days you're the pigeon, and that some days, you're the
statue. People might raise eyebrows and even make fun, but as long as
you can shrug and say "Hey, that's just me" and leave it at that,
people will ultimately respect you for it, and you'll respect yourself.
Believe in who you are. If
you're always working to be someone you're not, you'll never be a happy
person. Be yourself and show the world you're proud the way you are!
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